With life getting really really busy, we often forget that our love life also needs a boost and attention. I am sure many of you might have taken new year’s resolution something along the lines of shedding those extra pounds, quit smoking, managing investments well and many more. ( OK I know I am little late in talking about resolutions but c’mon it’s about love) , but guys any resolution for making relationship better, yes our relationship with our beloved ones. Do u remember the last time you have spend the quality time, forget it, do u even remember what brought you both together.
By the way Wikipedia defines quality time “as the time that is set aside for paying full and undivided attention to the person or matter at hand”. So people the point is undivided attention. These days our cars, bedroom become invaded by cellphones, iPads , laptop. Our relationship has lost the sight. With job, kids plus a topping of social networking circle we are loosing the “us” time. Let’s make it clear guys grocery shopping, hanging out with friends on weekend is not quality time spend.
Love is there and shall always be but it will be more if we remind each other in sweet little way. Believe me a simple hug, a simple touch , a simple compliment or a simple coffee will fill the day with little more love and will make life little more bright. Don’t you think a promotion enhance our work quality and an appreciation makes our day, why it has to be an occasion like birthday or marriage anniversary to make them feel special.
There is very popular belief about marriage that when doldrums hit and you find yourself more numb than really alive, you should look for the ways to get back what you once had. Remember the first time you met, the first kiss , the first dinner, the first anniversary, the very first reason of both of you being together, wasn’t that feeling euphoric…..
So whatever we name it a spark, a zest or love we can always rekindle it in our own sweet little way